My Virt-A-Mate Review After Reaching 30+ In-Game Hours

Virt-A-Mate is easily one of the most popular and most trending VR porn games available right now. Technology has come a long way since the 00s and the possibilities now are seemingly endless, all thanks to graphic and lewd games like Virt-A-Mate and their pioneering technology, vision, and freedom.

Virt-A-Mate (that’s the best place to play Virt-A-Mate and the VAM addons) themselves said this about their game – “advanced interactive characters using a combination of realistic joint physics, soft body physics, skin-accurate collisions, and advanced rendering techniques. The characters can come alive by capturing and storing motion capture”

I saw all of this and I knew I needed to try it out and create a Virt-A-Mate Review, all in the name of research, of course. My most-used VR headset is great but I knew I had to get a real feel for this game by playing it with a modern VR device, an older and more affordable VR device, and on my desktop without any virtual reality devices present at all, just so I could really immerse myself in everything this game has to offer and enjoy a broad spectrum of what other people will be experiencing.

I played this game for over 30+ hours with three different devices to get this review ready and it’s safe to say I cannot wait to unleash and tell you exactly how it is and if you should be avoiding or queuing for this innovative and sometimes questionable game.

The best way to describe this virtual reality sex simulator and sandbox game is to understand that anything is possible. It’s fully customizable, meaning scenes, rooms, characters, and kinks can all be explored at the drop of a hat.

If you wanted to fuck a big-breasted, tiny-waist porn star, you can make that happen. If you want to fuck a gorgeous woman with a giant cock between her legs, go ahead. Want to get a blowjob every 30 mins from a sexy babe with long red hair and a perfect ass created by you? you can do it! With every customization available for you to create your perfect characters and the ability for you to enjoy femdom, cuckolding, pegging, and everything in between, virt-a-mate can make it happen and make your sexual dreams and desires come to life.

My Review Of Virt-A-Mate (Straight To The Point)

An image from virt-a-mate of a man holding a woman from behind with the rating of 5 stars out of 5 stars illustrated over the image.
Our Virt-a-mate rating is 5 out of 5.

I played for hours on end and made sure to use both a modern and pricey VR headset, a cheaper and more accessible model, and just my desktop with no VR, these, ladies and gentlemen are the pros and the cons of this wildly popular game.


  • It allows you to create your own sexual and deviant experience so if you can think of it and have the image in your mind to create, you can experience it, there is nothing like that elsewhere.
  • The graphics are the best VR porn game graphics around, it is so realistic (I found these on all three of the devices I used), for me, it’s probably the best graphics out there from any available porn game.
  • Once you add vamX (a great add-on) it goes into a whole new realm of possibilities that you just couldn’t get with any other games we’ve tested. Literally, anything is possible. Check out this list for other VR game recommendations.
  • It works for both men and women, whatever your preferences you can set the scenes up how you like and that means you can play it with your partner as well for some ultimate VR bonding moments.
  • The integrated spatial audio is next level, it sucks you in and brings characters even more to life.
  • It’s the closest you can get to real sex inside VR, it’s a virtual way to get off that can even trump real life for some people.
  • It allows you to experience every fantasy you have from celebrity porn stars to fucking a luscious demon and even an alien with big tits. You can also try femdom, BDSM, pegging, cuckolding, and just about everything else in a safe and fun way.
  •  The immersion is unbelievable, especially when wearing a VR headset.


  • It can be a bit complex for casual users at the start while you’re learning how everything works (however there are great tutorials here).
  • Getting used to the controls can be a slight learning curve on both VR headsets and PCs.
  • Requires a good PC to get the best experience without a VR headset.  
  •  Whilst immersion is a pro for me, it can suck you in for hours and you have no idea where the time has gone.


When I saw the hype surrounding this game, I did think it would be a gimmick, I didn’t think VR was actually anywhere near being immersive enough to convince me I was actually fucking a pornstar but, I have had to eat my words and say that Virt-A-Mate is the best VR porn game I have ever tested and played and it’s going to be in my collection full time. 

Once I had finished testing this game as thoroughly as I do (I do this for every game I review), I continued playing it and it has now become a permanent fixture in my collection. For me, it has yet to get boring, there’s just so much you can create and whenever I feel like jerking off, I can put my creative juices to good use and enjoy something better than porn. You can see what others have been creating in this VAM Reddit thread.

VAM gives you a real masturbation and sexual exploration experience, it isn’t like anything I have ever played or tested before. Some of the games we test are just good games, but not great for jerking off, this is a game you can jerk off to endlessly, the kind of game you put on just to jerk off and have a fun and unique sexual release too.

In a way, it reminded me of seeing PornHub for the first time and just knowing you have unlimited videos to enjoy and so much porn to get through, the kind of excitement that makes your dick sore.

It’s an amazing game and one I would 100% recommend to anybody looking for immersive and endless masturbation games. Now, let’s take even more of a deep dive…

Rating: 5 out of 5

My Virt-A-Mate Gameplay Footage (Video and images)

a collage of all my gameplay footage from the hours I've played Virt-a-mate.
My gameplay footage from all the hours I played Virt-A-Mate

Gameplay is extremely realistic and alluring, once you have crafted the perfect scene and characters, it’s time to get to work, and when you begin playing and start seeing your design come to life it is like nothing you have ever experienced before.

Made with realistic physics, realistic joints, and body movements as well as advanced AI techniques that transform your characters into real people (or creatures). The characters are interactive too so they make noises and they respond to touch which makes this game even more addictive as it really tricks your brain into thinking you’re actually in the room with them.

Just How Hot Are The Virt-A-Mate Sex Scenes?

My gameplay footage from playing Virt-a-Mate

Even if you don’t have an imagination, you have no creative flair and you play this game with the most basic and entry-level versions of characters, it’s jaw-droppingly hot.

They are so realistic and you can really explore any kinks and fetishes you want at all times. With tons of weird and wonderful things to get up to, anything on your mind can be brought to life.

The scenes are way more realistic than I expected, even on a cheaper VR device and just my PC and no VR headset, I found myself really believing my characters were real and the fact I could do just about anything with them, made my orgasm so great.

The Types Of Kinks That You Can Experience Inside Virt-A-Mate

Threesome scene showcasing the types of fantasies you can do in virt-a-mate
Live out your deepest sexual fantasy in Virt-A-Mate (almost anything is possible)

Almost any kink is possible, but the biggest kinks are:

These are the scenes and kinks that are most popular but there are literally tens of thousands of mods, fetishes, and scenes you can try out inside the game, and even more once you add Vamx:

  • BDSM (Massive collection of soft all the way to extreme/hardcore)
  • Femdom
  • Domination
  • Cuckold/NTR
  • Hotwife
  • Futa
  • Sissy
  • Shemale
  • Swinging
  • Blowjobs
  • Anal
  • Creampies
  • JOI (jerk off instructions)
  • Shy Girlfriends
  • Scary/Horror
  • Girlfriend Experience
  • Seduction
  • Aliens
  • Demons
  • Elves
  • Fitness
  • Strip tease
  • Car sex
  • Big dick
  • BJ/Sex Training
  • Stamina Training
  • Gay
  • Lesbian
  • Threesome
  • DP
  • Sleeping
  • Public
  • Voyeurism
  • Massage
  • Age play
  • Love/Intimate Sex
  • Housemaid
  • Cheating
  • Denial
  • Rough

There are thousands more you can enjoy on top of these top kinks and fetish ideas too.

Can You Play From A Female Perspective?

Showing the female perspective in Virt-A-Mate.

female perspective handjob and blowjob

Yes, yes, yes!! I have had Tiffany (my girlfriend, for those of you who are new here) play it a few times and she’s started playing it on her own too. She can explore things in stunning VR that I can’t provide her with (such as a lesbian experience, shemale body types, etc).

Most creator modes allow you to pick your own perspective, it takes a few seconds and you can switch perspectives to be who you want to be in the scene, so if you want to experience being fucked or fucking, being a female or male (or elf) you can!

This game doesn’t discriminate, it really includes everyone and everything, allowing you free reign on your sexual desires.

Sounds, soundtrack, and effects

It’s something that is so easily forgotten in VR porn, but this game has the best spatial audio and sex sounds that you can find anywhere, it’s absolutely game-changing for the overall experience. Hearing moans, responses, sex noises, and tiny details as you jerk off is something really brings this VR world to life.

Best Place To Play Virt A Mate? (you unlock loads of other VR porn games and porn)

VRPorn is the place to go. You gain access to Virt-A-Mate (VAM) plus loads of other VRPorn games too and the biggest collection of VR porn online, it’s by far the best VR porn game site and VR porn video website around! It’s safe to use, easy to navigate, and has everything VR lovers need in one place.

Which VR Device Works With Virt-A-Mate?

  • Quest 3, 2, 1 and pro
  • Oculus Go
  • Oculus Rift/Rift S
  • HTC Vive
  • Samsung Gear VR
  • Google DayDream View
  • Playstation VR
  • Smartphone Andriod VR Using Google VR Services
  • Smartphone Iphone by installing mobile VR station,

Pretty much any good VR system should work with it if you’re playing it through VRporn.

Things You Can Add On To Enhance Your Virt-A-Mate Experience

virtual reality sex toys that work with VR. The toys in the image are the Fleshlight launch, kiiroo Keon, and the handy.

I have found a way to make VAM an even better experience for those of us who like to make sure we have the best orgasm. It has taken my jerk-off techniques to a whole new level, and all I did was add in some virtual reality-friendly sex toys.

Fleshlight launch

If you have the Fleshlight launch, you need to download this plugin as it makes it completely compatible with VAM. It allows you to tailor your experiences to a new degree by allowing your Fleshlight to work unanimously with the characters on your screen. It takes realism up a notch as well as your orgasm to a different planet altogether.

Kiiroo Keon

A slightly pricier option is this, another interactive sex toy that is already compatible with VAM. it syncs up to the movements on your screen and gives you the ability to enjoy a hands-free, completely tailored experience without having to move a muscle.

For the best handjob experience read this guide on the official VAM website, it tells you exactly how to do it with or without a compatible toy.

You Need To Add Vamx (a mega content pack for virt a mate)

If you buy Virt-A-Mate through Vrporn you get vamX for free and access a massive library of scenes, positions, toys, customization and so much more. It’s so worth it as although the base game is enough by itself, once you get used to it and let your imagination run a little wilder, it gives you access to things you didn’t even know you wanted.

On top of that if you want to play even more you can do more modding.

Modding and Cheats For Virt-A-Mate (It has a massive asset library)

The game really took off because of modding and the number of scenes, looks, clothing, hairstyles, morphs, textures, plugins, and assets you can download both free and paid. I really like how much you are able to customize this game, it gives you such a creative flair and appeals to everyone out there. The asset library is seemingly endless so have a browse and see what kind of things you want to add to your game.

You can find all the assets, mods and addons either on the Hub or on VRporn.

What About The Community, How Many People Play This Game?

Over 35 thousand people search this game on Google per month and even more get to the game directly either through Patreon (over 25k paying members), the games website, or

This game still gets updated almost every day by modders and every other month by the talented and motivated developers Meshed VR. This game definitely isn’t a ghost town, there are so many users and so much still being put out there, I personally, think that this game will only get better and better with time as devices and perceptions develop.

They have one of the biggest gaming Patreon accounts with over 25k paying members. A fantastic WIKI with so much advice and direction, A Reddit sub where you can find inspiration and download mods from other users, and even a Forum that is constantly updated and filled with questions from other players.

This is the easiest place to Virt-A-Mate that I’ve found and it makes they super easy to connect any VR you have.

If you have any questions about this VR game or mods you want to share with others, let me know in the comments below.

I set this site up with my girlfriend to review adult content and dating sites. We take our time and really test everything we talk about. We have an open relationship which pushed us to test a lot of these amazing sites.

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