About M


Where I’m at: 

Mourning the loss of my baby sister who began this blog with me and stumbling through relationships. I am somewhat polyamorous. I live with my love, Mr. Texas, now. The Wanderer and I have deepened our relationship as well.

I’ve become more reclusive since my sister died but occasionally I’ll still push myself out the door and socialize with like-minded kink friends.


Random Facts:

I insist that I am 5 ft (1.524m) tall, others have pointed out that I am slightly shorter

I dislike pizza

I rarely use makeup – for that reason, really don’t know how to apply it

I rarely do my hair in anything other than a ponytail or a braid – really don’t know how to style it

I’m pretty lazy recently

The first time I wore a corset was at Eroticon (only wore one two other occasions)

I love to read

My favorite color is purple – which is obvious from my pictures of rope and toys


I’m a professional and a mother. I’ve moved so many times in recent years due to being a military spouse that I reinvent anything further than these (it feels like). My ex-husband and I had a rough break up, which he was gracious enough to let me share my perspective on. On the heels of the constant reconciliation and eventual divorce, with my baby sister’s death, I spiraled into depression; I’ve opened up and written about much of it.

While single after being married for so long, I discovered my inner slut wasn’t quite as happy as I had hoped with random hook ups. I have always loved sex; quite capable of multiple orgasms and climaxing different ways.

Beyond sex, I was an avid rope slut; while I continue to venture tentatively out in the new kink communities after my divorce, they are still more rope centered. The unforeseen beauty of blogging is I have actually chronicled my journey in rope, something that I am grateful to have.

I’ve been into bondage and knife play for quite awhile. In the time that I’ve been blogging, I also discovered a love for many other kinks (for example: power play dynamics, orgasm control, wax, deep throating, electricity play, spanking, impact, and choking). Primarily, my posts were about submission (only in my sex life ) because otherwise I was always in control being the decision maker and boundary enforcer, in both my professional and personal life (though I would switch power dynamics for my ex husband from time to time). Now, I don’t have to be in control of everything and am more of a switch, though topping is something I naturally gravitate towards; and I also learned that my kink can be separate from sex.

So now I’ve written about a few others: play partners, friends, and lovers.


In the Blogging Beginning: 

One day my younger sister and I were visiting each other and decided to write this blog. It began as more soft erotica and has evolved to more BDSM. Over time, my sister found the love of her life and struggled with health issues, taking less of a role on the blog. She died towards the end of 2016. I still continue to write, though the blog has evolved so much and I’m now clueless as to the direction. You can also find me on twitter and tumblr.

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  3 Responses to “About M”

  1. when M from Cammies on the Floor asked Graydancer to show her husband how to tie her, I jumped in

  2. I hope you saw the award at: http://mysexlifewithlola.com/2014/11/bad-girl-bloggers-award/
    Please link back to it when you pass on the love!



  3. You’re random facts are interesting. damned shame to hear the military still bothers with such ridiculous policies.

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