The Most Popular BDSM Subreddits

The exciting and sometimes terrifying world of BDSM (the actual definition is: Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadochism and Masochism), can be an overwhelming place online. There are so many, we are talking millions of forums begging for your attention but when you don’t know where to look, it can all seem too much at times.

Realizing this, we wanted to put all of the best subreddits in one place. If you don’t know Reddit is one huge forum and a subreddit is an off-branch, with thousands and thousands of different subreddits to explore, sexual and not. Reddit allows you to post videos, pictures, gifs, and text so there is so much to see and where BDSM is concerned, so many spectacular places to hang out that you probably didn’t even know existed. Filled with real people, updated daily, and best of all? totally free.

We Regularly Use And Post On These SubReddits

Every subreddit I have listed below, Tiffany and I use. We scroll through them, we interact and on some, we even post our own stuff. We enjoy bdsm, it’s exciting and there’s so much for us to try. We are not shy when it comes to being open about our sex life and lots of these bdsm subreddits allow us that sense of community and excitement that keeps us fresh and curious.

The Best BDSM Subreddits Ranked By Most Popular

A big list of 20 BDSM reddit pages with a tiny reddit logo in corner of image. Orange outline around the image.

These subreddits have been carefully selected by us and ranked in terms of popularity, we will go into detail about our favorite and most-used bdsm subreddits at the end of the list. Every chosen subreddit is different and gives you a different experience from advice to submissions, to videos and bdsm amateur porn. If we have missed your favorite bdsm subreddit, let us know in the comments and we will be sure to check it out.


r/SheLikesItRough

This subreddit is dedicated to user-uploaded videos, gifs, and pictures of hot females pounded roughly and intensely. There are over a million members and users uploading new rough stuff every single day.

Members: 1M +


r/freeuse

This subreddit is for those who enjoy exploring the ‘free use’ fetish. This is where a female is free to use, any hole goes and she is treated a bit like a sex doll.

Members: 1M+


r/bdsm

If you want amateur and professional BDSM pictures, videos, and gifs this is the right place. Filled with hundreds and thousands of like-minded people.

Members: 715k


r/DegradingHoles

Degradation is a big part of the BDSM world and here you will find so much steamy content of people being degraded and people doing the degrading.

Members: 711k


r/BDSMGW

I like to browse this subreddit and turn myself on, you get to enjoy thousands of pictures, videos, and gifs uploaded by amateurs all showing off their kinky lives.

We also create a massive list of Gone Wild subs that I highly recommend you check out.

Members: 536k


r/Bondage

A Reddit that’s for those of us interested in bondage in whatever form that may be. It’s a space for people to share their intimate pictures and enjoy what this kink has to offer.

Members: 508k


r/forcedorgasms

A wonderful bdsm-inspired community, filled with male and female forced orgasms. It’s so intense and always makes me so horny!

Members: 377k


r/BDSMcommunity

Everything and anything you need to know about bdsm can be found here. People worldwide ask and post questions daily, looking for advice, recommendations, and kinky tips and tricks.

Members: 374k


r/Femdom

If female domination is more your style, let this Reddit show you how it’s done. Post questions, pictures, submissions, and just about anything else that doesn’t break their rules.

If you’re as big of a fan of Femdom as I am, check out this resource of femdom subreddits.

Members: 374k


r/gentlefemdom

The art of gentle female domination is a skill learned through time and exposure and here you will find beautiful erotic and gentle content shared by real users.

Members: 262k


r/facesitting

An excellent way to end the working week, with a delicious pussy on your face. Enjoy submissions from like-minded face-sitting lovers whenever you want it.

Members: 357k


r/painal

Not for the faint-hearted, this Reddit is best-suited to those who enjoy rough, intense anal penetration. It’s seriously hot and very fitting for this bdsm list.

Members: 260k


r/BDSMAdvice

I really recommend checking this Reddit out, it’s a great place to seek advice, ask questions and learn everything there is to know about bdsm and the issues that can arise within it.

Members: 257k


r/RuinedOrgasms

Although it’s an art to be mastered, ruined orgasms are a delicacy to be enjoyed best served with revenge, and this Reddit is filled with people from all walks of life-ruining their partner’s orgasm one stroke at a time.

Members: 255k


r/collared

A very specific thread but one I love visiting. All it cares about is photos of people in bdsm-esque collars, dainty, hardcore, or anything in between. It’s a really erotic place to scroll through and I just love seeing those pretty bdsm necklaces.

Members: 252k


r/orgasmcontrol

With almost a quarter of a million subscribers at the time of writing this, this Reddit is becoming more and more popular. I find it so arousing, to watch people have total control of their own or somebody else’s orgasm.

Members: 239k


r/BDSMpersonals

Whether you’re searching for a kinky partner or you just want to enjoy previous submissions and be the person another kinkster is looking for. This Reddit allows you to post your own personals, just include, age, sex, and approximate location (the nearest city is the safest way to do this) and include exactly what you’re looking for.

Members: 228k


r/femdomgonewild

I believe Femdom makes the world go round and this is a dirty, steamy, and addictive spot for you to enjoy real people’s acts of femdom and somewhere you can even post your own if you wish to participate in this glorious kink.

Members: 222k


r/Spanking

If spanking is more your thing, this Reddit is glorious. It’s filled with real pictures and videos from other users who want to show off the aftermath of spanking and even themselves being spanked and enjoying every moment of it.

Members: 179k


r/FaceofPain

Created after it was noted that most people look at the female’s face during porn, this Reddit thread is dedicated to capturing just that. Filled with pictures, videos, and gifs of females during sex.

Members: 164k


r/chastity

For those of us who get off on chastity and love to absorb everything there is to know about it into our lives. It is purely for chastity and as soon as you begin to scroll you are delighted with so much content you won’t know what to do with yourself.

Members: 163k


r/postorgasm

One of the most blissful moments in life is that post-orgasm clarity and peacefulness and this subreddit are dedicated to that moment, except this is a BDSM list and post-orgasm bliss for these guys means torture and play.

Members: 151k


r/fetish

All kinks are welcome here, kink-shaming is a sin and you must obey the rules of the forum. Find hot pictures, videos, and gifs of people exploring their kinks and sharing them with the world.

Members: 151k


r/lesdom

A place to discover female on female domination. It’s a place of admiration, a place to observe and enjoy. We don’t see lesbian doms represented as much in porn and so, this is a great place to admire that desire.

Members: 150k


r/Femaleorgasmdenial

Make her cum but make it bdsm. Here you will discover what it takes to tease and deny her orgasm and enjoy posts from thousands of users who just want to share their findings and their experiences.

Members: 149k


r/felching

Felching is the tasty art of eating creampies (not those creampies – the other kind). This Reddit is made for people to enjoy thousands of videos and pictures of others eating and enjoying creampie after creampie.

Members: 146k


r/Dominated

If you like the tied-up, dominated and restrained aspect of bdsm, this Reddit is going to be for you. Filled to the brim with jaw-dropping domination content, you won’t need to go anywhere else.

Members: 144k


r/Bondage_Porn

Bondage is an art form and this thread is for just that. Bondage videos and pictures are uploaded by people to share with lovers of this kinky art form.

Members: 117k


r/choking

Choking is a popular sex act used by those of us who enjoy bdsm and if you want to find a community of people who enjoy choking as much as you do, you will find it here.

Members: 107k


r/gagged

Gagged is a special place to share our own and favorite content of women being gagged by ball-gags and other mouth-muffling devices.

Members: 100k


r/kinky

If you consider yourself kinky, check this out first because the thousands of members actively uploading here could make even the kinkiest couple look vanilla.

Members: 100k


r/CagedAndFucked

Not as popular as some of the other threads we have seen but worthy of its place nonetheless. Getting fucked in chastity is exciting, passionate, and extremely rewarding.

Members: 95k


r/FemdomCommunity

Get support, share advice, discuss, celebrate and enjoy this inclusive forum where you can talk with femdoms and themdoms who enjoy this kink as much as you do.

Members: 83k


r/ChastityCouples

A place for couples to share their most intimate pictures, videos, and gifs as they enjoy and embark on their journey of chastity play.

Members: 82k


r/BondageBlowjobs

Bound or restrained women giving delightful blowjobs is exactly what you will find here. It’s certainly the perfect bdsm Reddit.

Members: 80k


r/BDSMerotica

Porn except it’s in word format and every single story submitted is in some way promoting BDSM, bondage, and other bdsm kinks.

Members: 79k


r/girlscontrolled

Mind-control and hypnotizing to love potions and spells, this Reddit has everything you need to explore your Hypno fetish.

Members: 77k


r/BdsmDIY

I love this thread, I think it’s great so that people can see what is possible to DIY at home in order to live a kinky and budget-friendly kinkster lifestyle.

Members: 61k


r/femalechastity

Discuss, share stories, and post pictures or videos of women locked up in chastity. It’s an exciting thread with lots going on and plenty to discover.

Members: 56k


r/OrgasmTorture

A place to share (mostly) videos of people receiving forced orgasms. I love this kink, I enjoy it in my personal life as well as when I watch porn and I can’t get enough of it.

Members: 56k


r/submissive

If you’re a submissive or you’re with a sub, this is the place for you. It’s an open discussion for all things submission, ask questions, get advice, and share tips on being a sub.

Members: 55k


r/bratlife

Brats make the world go round and this is a community for brats and their tamers to do as they please, share their experiences, and have us begging for more.

Members: 54k


r/MaledomEmpire

This one is a little different from the others, it’s a place to roleplay, a place where men are doms and the females are owned. People enjoy roleplaying their favorite master and sub scenarios here and it is a lot of fun to read or join in with.

Members: 52k


r/ropebondage

Rope bondage is a huge part of bdsm for a lot of people and this subreddit shares all of the techniques, tips, tricks, and inspiration you will ever need.

Members: 52k


r/shinybondage

Pictures and videos of people wearing PVC, lycra, shiny clothing, latex rubber, spandex, and any type of tight, latex-inspired clothing.

Members: 50k


r/Cuffed

If you enjoy the visuals of a female being handcuffed or restrained, you will love this sub. Picture after picture of sexy women tied up and helpless.

Members: 49k


r/damselsindistress

Love a wriggling, desperate damsel in distress? This subreddit will be for you. Enjoy post after post of hot, tied up, and often gagged women in distress and aching to be released.

Members: 45k


r/predicamentbondage

Stuck in a predicament? If you lean one way your nipples get pinched if you lean the other your hair gets pulled, which is it going to be?

Members: 41K


r/PainKink

This sub focuses on the pain elements of BDSM sex, it shares hot pictures and videos of consensual bdsm enthusiasts enjoying their favorite part -the pain.

Members: 40k


r/boundgirls

If you have a preference for seeing women tied up, this will be the place for you. With thousands of members and lots of content to enjoy.

Members: 37k


r/SheObeys

Rough, intense, and very bdsm-friendly is how I would describe this subreddit. Filled with women obeying, doing as they are told, and listening to their master.

Members: 33k


r/BDSM_Smiles

Focusing on the lighter side of BDSM this thread includes people during kinky sex, smiling and looking happy. It’s all about the smiles here!

Members: 33k


r/maledom

A community for people who enjoy submission roleplay, a place where male doms are the leaders and you must submit. If you like dom/sub male-led relationships you will love this.

Members: 32k


r/bdsmmemes

Fun and addictive to scroll through yet still erotic and nice to find people into kinky things whilst making it relatable and exciting.

Members: 30k


r/AdorableBDSM

A sub for adorable and wholesome bdsm content, a side to this kink that is often forgotten and overlooked due to its intense and rough nature and societal understanding.

Members: 29k


r/pussytorture

Clitoris and pussy torture is one of those bdsm kinks that can leave you feeling as if you had an out-of-body experience and this subreddit captures that beautiful essence.

Members: 26k


r/BDSMgonewild

Enjoy seemingly endless, user-submitted videos, gifs, and pictures of people engaging in BDSM practices in a horny host of different ways.

Members: 25k


r/cbtBDSM

Ask questions, get advice and post your own cock and ball torture content. Not everything uploaded is original but it is a heck of a fun thread if cock and ball torture is your vice.

Members: 24k


r/EbonyBDSM

Love BDSM and love black skin? this is for you. Filled with so much black bdsm content that you won’t know what to do with yourself.

Members: 10k


The BDSM subreddits We Post On And Use The Most

An illustration of the four subreddit pages we use the most. The subreddits are r/bdsm, r/shelikesitrough, r/ruinedorgasms, r/bdsmgw. Each reddit has an illustration above it that is related to the sub reddit. For r/bdsm it's pink handcuffs, for r/shelikesitrought it's two hands tied up, r/ruinedorgasms is cream dripping on to reddit logo and r/bdsmgw is a woman with a ball gag in her mouth. Orange outline.

There are so many to choose from and so many different kinks and niches to explore inside the bdsm world and so, when we go on Reddit we like to have a few favorites saved so that it’s easier to keep track of all the content and posts that get submitted.

These are our top threads, we use these for our own pleasure and even have our own accounts that we use to post on:

  • r/bdsm
  • r/SheLikesItRough
  • r/BDSMGW
  • r/RuinedOrgasms

Some Alternatives I Use When I Get Bored Of Reddit

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It seems impossible but it can happen, despite the variety, you can get bored of certain websites and so I always make sure to have somewhere else to visit when I need something new and exciting to try. I have a whole article dedicated to the best BDSM porn websites that you should check out (coming out soon).

Spoiler: Kink.com is the best BDSM porn site!

If I have missed your favorite subreddit or you want us to try one out, leave it down below and we will get to work testing out your recommendations!

I'm Tiffany and I'm the girlfriend of Chris, we run this blog together. We are both pretty open about trying new things in the bedroom and both share a love for great adult content and we are both always looking for new ways to spice things up.

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